Why not have an affair …. WITH your Significant Other?? Why not generate all those lusty, spine chilling, goosebump, butterflies, flushed face, genital tingly sensations anew. Renew your lust and desire … with EACH OTHER!
Becoming a Pleasure Muse for ourselves and our Significant Other is what naturally occurs when we first fall in-love, or truthfully, in-lust. The tingly butterflies of heat rising in your body, that anticipatory phone call, sexy text, or creative rendezvous. We easily and readily go out of our comfort zone because we are in a state of trance. Schedules readily get re-arranged because our priorities have suddenly been hacked by a trance of desire, connection, and pleasure. This trance like state of orgasmicness seems to be our path to love, our road to fulfill feelings that we’ve craved for a lifetime. Sound Familiar?
If you are lucky, you have at one point or another, felt this suspension of reality for this heightened state of consciousness. You have been a Pleasure Muse to your Lover and / or have been swept off your feet and were the recipient. Or, even better, you danced equally in the give and take of this addictive altered reality and, in fact, found your soulmate, the one who fulfils your orgasmic cravings….
And then one day it’s gone.
One day, you find yourself married with kids, in a different type of trance …. One that is consumed by work, commuting, deadlines, family functions, sports, and wipng runny noses. Mommy and Daddy time doesn't seem to come until around 11pm; however, you don’t have energy or much creativity left. Once in awhile, you may get in an obligatory romp that gets the job done, but doesn’t really satisfy either of you. After this is repeated repeatedly, your mind starts to wander to the fantasy of that feeling … that feeling of lust, anticipation, and desire. You start to hunger for it. If you don’t share these thoughts with your partner and seek an escape or solution from your rut collectively, you can easily get emotionally and physically further removed. You might blame your partner as the one who's at fault. They aren’t sexy enough, or you aren’t sexy enough for them. You might get caught up in pornography to feed that desire, or worse, start to think that you need to go outside of your committed relationship to find yourself, to find that lovin,’ lustin’ feeling. Or .. you just might numb out and be content with becoming room-mates.
You love your significant other, but you crave a state of orgasmicness. Lusty, juicy, hot sexiness. It’s a biological need that has be fed, has to be nurtured … or our natural tendencies start to wander.
As your Pleasure Muse, I will guide you as a couple to reignite your flame, discover what truly feeds each of you, and empower you with a tool kit to satiate each of your desires.